FAQ about HIV-Positive Support Groups
What if I’m interested in joining an HIV-positive support group?
If you’re interested in a drop-in group, you can either call AHP to learn more about the group, or just show up at the starting time of the group. If you’re interested in an ongoing, time-limited group, you must call AHP to schedule an intake appointment. During this appointment, you’ll meet with an intake worker who will guide you through the process of our client registration system. At that point, the intake worker may refer you to a clinical assessment with an AHP clinician or to the Groups Program for possible placement on the waitlist for an AHP group. For more information or to schedule an intake appointment, please call 415-476-3902.
How long are the waitlists for an ongoing group?
Waits can range from a couple of weeks to several months based on a number of factors, including: the current demand for the group(s), the number of openings, and your availability. While on the waitlist, you will receive monthly telephone reminders that you are on the waitlist and that you may attend relevant drop-in groups.
When do ongoing groups meet?
Ongoing groups are held Monday through Thursdays during the daytime and in the evening. Meetings typically last 90 minutes to two hours.
When I get into an ongoing group, is everyone else in the group new?
Generally not. In most cases, you’re entering a group that has been continuing for some time and has an opening. An opening happens when a member leaves a group.
What goes on during ongoing or drop-in group meetings?
Each group meeting—whether ongoing or drop-in—starts with a check in, during which members share what’s going on for them, what they hope to get from group that day, and whether they have a particular topic they want to address. After check-in, groups decide what topics to cover. In most groups, there’s a 10-minute break about halfway through the meeting. Near the end of the meeting, members “check out” by briefly reflecting on the night’s experience.
Most groups have two co-facilitators who may be trained volunteers, AHP staff clinicians, or trained, graduate-level intern counselors. Volunteers are peers (not professionals) who have been trained to facilitate groups and are supervised by REACH program staff. Facilitators include men and women, who may be HIV-positive or HIV-negative, gay or straight.
Do you encourage group members to become friends?
Yes, if members are interested in this opportunity. However, dating between members in the same group is not permitted because, among other reasons, such situations are almost invariably harmful to the group’s ability to support each member.
What do I do if I have more questions?
Please call 415-476-3902.
